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It is not easy to label the ‘scene’ here because it is not organized, not open, not admitted, yet it’s cruisy, sexy, internet-connected and quite populous. During my visit I chatted with two very different gay men, one a young student at a local university and the other a retired Italian resident of Tunis now self-employed. Ari, a university student studying architecture, and I met at tea time and had creamy thick hot chocolate at a trendy modern coffee shop and later went for pizza across the street.Ari is a gregarious gay youth of 20 maturing out of his twink years.We shall achieve this by creating an anonymous digital space for free consultations, counseling and medical/legal follow-up.In Tunisia gay life has many faces: from secretive post-marital same-sex-not-gay quickies among straight husbands, to ongoing pre-marital youth same-sex-not-gay with friends, to totally gay friendship networks among different age peers, to monogamous boyfriend couples to discrete liaisons from the internet.Ari feels ‘stuck’ in his own culture, for the time being.

I’m not allowed to talk about guys but I can have all the sex I want before marriage.

Ari does not know any older gay men, who are hard to find since they are very discrete.

Discovering one’s gay self in Tunisia is an uneven and unclear path especially when living singly without a community or tolerant society.

Even an enduring lover may come and go, for business or personal reasons, with long periods apart when there are temptations to flirt and play which diminishes commitment–another reason why Ari wants to live in Europe with its high density ‘gay cities’ with supportive friendships and communities.

Ari readily admits that he is easily urged to love and passion by his heart: “First by my heart, then my cock then my brain is last,” he said laughing.

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